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You learned it as a child: sex is bad. But like all
the other kids, you had sexual thoughts and
feelings. Early on you learned the Secrecy Im-
perative: to avoid punishment, rejection, and
abandonment you'd better keep your sexuality
a secret. And all these years later, you still do.
Tour Sexual Secrets, by sex therapist and lec-
turer Marty Klein, tells how such secrets can
hold back a relationship; how to decide
whether or not to tell your lover; and how to go
about sharing if you do decide to tell. He ex-
plores the many secrets that people keep about
their sexuality, including specific turn-ons, fan-
tasies, the fact that they masturbate, their true
level of sexual desire, performance fears, and
old traumas, such as rape or child abuse. Al-
though most people believe that sexual secrets
will protect them, these secrets actually prevent
the relationships and sexual satisfaction we all
want so much. Tour Sexual Secrets discusses the
ways in which sexual...
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Fülszöveg
You learned it as a child: sex is bad. But like all
the other kids, you had sexual thoughts and
feelings. Early on you learned the Secrecy Im-
perative: to avoid punishment, rejection, and
abandonment you'd better keep your sexuality
a secret. And all these years later, you still do.
Tour Sexual Secrets, by sex therapist and lec-
turer Marty Klein, tells how such secrets can
hold back a relationship; how to decide
whether or not to tell your lover; and how to go
about sharing if you do decide to tell. He ex-
plores the many secrets that people keep about
their sexuality, including specific turn-ons, fan-
tasies, the fact that they masturbate, their true
level of sexual desire, performance fears, and
old traumas, such as rape or child abuse. Al-
though most people believe that sexual secrets
will protect them, these secrets actually prevent
the relationships and sexual satisfaction we all
want so much. Tour Sexual Secrets discusses the
ways in which sexual secrecy affects intimate
relationships, sexual functioning, and even
child-rearing.
Accepting sexual experiences and feelings
leads to a sense of choice. Readers of Tour
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